ஒரு இனிய அறிவிப்பு!!!!!

நீண்ட நாட்களுக்கு பிறகு எழுதும், ப்ளாக்.  இந்த ப்ளோகில் சமிபத்தில் நடந்த நல்ல விஷயங்கள் பற்றி கூறுகிறேன்.

என்னுடைய நீண்ட நாள் கனவு மும்பாயில்  இருந்து பெங்களூர் அல்லது சென்னை மாற்றல் ஆகி வர வேண்டும் என்பது, அந்த ஆசை இப்பொழுது நிறைவேறியது.  கிட்டத்தட்ட ஒரு வருடமாக கேட்டு கொண்டு இருந்த மாற்றல் இந்த ஆகஸ்ட்  மாதம் நிறைவேறியது. பெங்களூரில் ஒரு வீடு அப்பா, அம்மா பிரபாவின் உதவியோடு ஒரு வீடு பார்த்து இருந்தார்கள். நீண்ட நாள் ஆசையான அம்மாவின் சமையலை ஆபீஸ் எடுத்து வந்தேன்.  ஒரு கனவு நிறைவேறியது.  அம்மா பெங்களூரில் இருந்த வரையில் நான் நன்றாக உணவு அருந்தி, diet அக இருந்தேன். அம்மா ஊருக்கு சென்றவுடன் dietகு மிகவும் சிரம பட்டேன்.  10 கிலோ எடை குறைத்தேன், அம்மா சென்றபிறகு உடல் எடை  கூடாமல்  பார்த்து கொண்டு இருகின்றேன்.

நன் பெங்களூர் வரும் வரையில் அப்பா அம்மாவே திருமண பேச்சு எடுக்க வேண்டாம் என்று சொல்லி  இருந்தேன். என்னிடம் சேரி என்று சொல்லிவிட்டு பார்த்து கொண்டு இருந்தார்கள். நான் பெங்களூர் வந்தவுடன் மிகவும் சுறுசுறுப்பாக பார்க்க தொடங்கிவிட்டார்கள். அதன் பலனாக வருங்கின்ற திங்கள் 29-oct-2012, அன்று எனக்கும் , மதுமதிக்கும்   உறுதி வார்த்தை நடக்க இருகின்றது,  நிச்சியதார்த்தம் என்றும் சொல்லலாம்.

பெண் பார்க்க கொடுபதற்காக ஒரு வருடமாக என்னிடம் போட்டோ கேடும் நான் குடுக்கவில்லை. பெங்களூர் வந்த பிறகு சென்டிமென்டாக பேசி நானும் ஒரு போட்டோ எடுத்து கொடுதேன். ஆனால் அந்த போட்டோ  குடுக்கும் முன்பு எனக்கு திருமணம் உறுதி ஆகி விட்டது. 

 மிக விரைவில் நான் எங்களுடைய நிச்யதர்த்த போடோவுடன் கூடிய ஒரு ப்ளாக் எழுதுகிறேன்.


நானும் மதுமதியும் பேச ஆரம்பித்தவுடன் நான் இந்த ப்ளாக் ஷேர் செய்து விட்டேன்.  அது மதுவுக்கு என்னை பற்றி அறிய ஒரு உதவியாக இருந்திருக்கும் என்று நினைகின்றேன்.

Johny my dog....Entry into our family.

This dog made my family suffer for nearly 3 hours. Today a gang of men,women & children searched for him when we found Johny was missing in home. Need to tell more about Johny. He is like younger brother to me and a son for my parents.

This is how Johny came into our life. I like dogs very much. I dreamed of having a dog from my childhood after seeing many dog adventures film. But my mother dont want to have a dog, She had a very good reason for that. So my childhood dream passed. When we moved to a independent house i started to convinience my parents, my father agreed but it was hard to convirnce my mother, and i convienced her with a gr8 support from my father.
Monday morning i had a flight to mumbai, saturday we decided to buy a puppy. I sugested German Shepard and we had a puppy dealer in erode. We called him and went to buy puppy. He was just 21 days old. He was with his mother and the dealer brought a single puppy from the mother. He was very cute, tiny and on seeing thd puppy we decided to take home without any discussion.He was very little, i was able to hold in my palm. We took him home in our car. when we tried to feed him milk he didnt know how to drink, we fed him with spoon. The same habit continues till now.

Johny was not missing he was inside our house. but we misthought of he left house. Luckyly he was inside our home.
I will write the remaining in next blog. Feeling sleepy.

Live a life that matters!!!

The content in this blog is not mine..I found it in internet. 
Credit goes to actual author, i am just sharing it, bcoz i like it. Read below:

Ready or not, someday it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises,
no minutes,
hours or days.
All the things you collected,
whether treasured or forgotten,
will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned,
or what you were owed.
Your grudges,
resentments,
frustrations,
and jealousies
will finally disappear.
So, too, your hopes,
ambitions,
plans,
and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important
will fade away.
It won't matter where you came from,
or on what side of the tracks you lived, at the end.
It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin colour will be irrelevant.

So what will matter?
How will the value of your days be measured?
What will matter is not what you bought,
but what you built;
not what you got,
but what you gave.
What will matter is not your success,
but your significance.
What will matter is not what you learned,
but what you taught.

What will matter...
is every act of integrity,
compassion,
courage
or sacrifice..
..that enriched,
empowered
or encouraged, others to emulate your example.
What will matter is not your competence,
but your character.
What will matter is not how many people you knew,
but how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone.
What will matter is not your memories,
but the memories that live in those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered,
by whom
and for what.
Living a life that matters doesn't happen by accident.
It's not a matter of circumstance,
but of choice.







Choose to live a life that matters.

On the flow..

Writing this blog before going to sleep.  Had a feeling in mind. Including me i have seen many people working far away from home to earn money. I am talking abt only people who stay far away from home. Are they happy with the money they have earned. Yes their financial problem is solved. But think abt family, and u... no one will be near by u when u wanted them the most or whey they wanted u the  most. You wont be near with them for festivals, functions and other important moments of life. Only phone calls, yearly 2-3 meetings thats it. You will forget ur relations, everything in back home.After 10-20 years back you will forget everything.

if married u and ur wife both will be going to work to earn more. You would not be able to spend time with ur family. Kids will be growing with nanny, can a nanny give true love like a mother/father gives?.  u can say i am earning more money so i can keep my kid happy. i can make him what ever he wants... yes true u can.. but there wont be love.. he will be seeing u as an ATM. not as a father and there wont be any love like how u love ur parents.

i just wanted to say money can buy any thing but not true love. Money can't bring back ur lost life, happiness. You r working hard for ur family, thats gr8. But are both of u happy? No.  Even though if u are not earning much u will be happy when u are near by with ur family. There will be many people around u to support.

I am not happy in being far away from home. I want to be with my family. I know i have lost many things by being away from home. I dont want to loose more. Soon i will be moving closer to my family in next approx 6-8 months. or i will bring them close yo me.

A man is not rich by his wealth, he is rich by his attitude. Not all rich man are sad and not all poor man are happy. it depends on how he keeps him happy.

I am feeling sleepy....remaing in another blog..

Blog from mobile...

This is a test blog.. To check whether i am able to blog from my mobile & add photos.
This is my childhood photo my mother holding me and  my broyher.